Its been a loooong time blog nya dianggurin karena ceritanya berbulan-bulan ngumpet abis hibernasi di kutub utara hehehe, and now i'm gonna post unpleasant story, maaf ya dateng-dateng kok curhat yang nggak ngenakin, mohon dimaklumin aja yaaaa
so, here it is...
at first, apologize to bring my rubbish thought here. I know I shouldnt make my blog dirty because of this post. but well, I'm a human and this time I really need a place to release all bad feelings in my heart. *nangis di pojokan*
it is a good learning, indeed. a life value. about how to face your office politics and an inapropriate subordinates.
sebenarnya bukan saya yang langsung mengalaminya, tapi saya pun terkena dampaknya. sebel, kesel, emosi, sedih, dan marrrraahhh. tapi siapa sih saya? hanya butiran debu di gedung menjulang ini.
one valuable wisdom:
kalau subordinate kamu "minta" jangan pernah sekali kali mengakomodir dan mencarikannya. jangan pernah. cih! pait pait pait...
if your subordinate "asking" for "something" (illegaly) dont you ever ever eveeeeer try to accomodate or find a thousand way to fulfil his/her needs although he/she is your super close subordinate and your career was in dangerous situation. never! reject stright forward-ly as strong as you can!
ada banyak macam orang yang hidup di dunia ini, termasuk orang yang maruk, pelupa, kiss ass-er dan bermuka dua. Paling serem ya yang terakhir... dia bisa jadi sangat baik, dan sangat jahat melebihi nenek sihir. hiiy
eniwey, orang bilang kalau rejeki nggak akan tertukar. actually, I'm not open a case with the money, but with "the way" that he/she did. Because in the end...when that "two face" performed, after you give what she want, suddenly she can change into a backstabber which have a power to kill you from your back. she start to lost her memory, forget that she already had a conversation about "something" with you before. And tell everyone that you have a bad reputation, and broke your career path into a pieces. people will think you did it, eventhough you didnt. lebih buruknya lagi... she can cheat on you by taking "something" that supposed to be yours. gilak kaaaaan?
kadang sampai harus narik napas dan ngelus dada, kok ada ya orang kayak begitu di dunia yang fana ini? *sambil elus dada... dada john mayer atau adam levine tentunya hehehe*
udah ah,
Intinya... trust your integrity. jangan lah mengakomodir sesuatu demi memenuhi keinginan subordinate semata, dengan berusaha cari cari jalan. (we got nothing, guys. he/she is the only one who enjoy the benefit). doing good deeds is good, berbuat baik itu bagus... tapi jangan sampai kecemplung got atau kita yang kecipratan kotorannya.
this is not my story, beneran deh. but I learn A LOT from this. pelajaran berharga banget. BANGET! apalagi dengan environment dan surrounding kantor yang astajim kayak begitchu.
semoga orang orang seperti mereka diberikan hidayah, ditempatkan di tempat terbaik, dan diampuni dosa dosanya. amin. amin. amiiiin.
(pardon my grammar, semenjak pindah kantor, enggreys nya udah kacau balau, juaraaaang dipake. hiks)
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